I am convinced at this point in my lifetime that women are themselves confused about what they want. Yes, yes, yes....... i know that for the many women reading this, you must be saying 'i know what i want'. Do you really? Lets have a look.
So you want a man that is loving and caring, who loves you for who you are. You get that man today and he is loving and caring, loves you and the dirt you walk on, BUT there is another issue. He isn't as financially sound as your girlfriends guy and therefore he isn't good enough.
Okay, so you still aren't that type of lady, you are independent and have your own thing going for you. And you are very certain that you know what you want. Well the guy is supportive, loving and caring but he has a few hick-up in bed, so what do you do? What you want then changes once again.
Where I am from I have had guys ask me over and over about what women want in this world today. The world is changing gentlemen and so are the ladies along with it. While love is something that will be very commendable, it is not what most women are looking for today and if they are it comes after an entire list of requirements.
Women have an idea of what they want, and it is your role as a New Gentleman to show them what they want. To be the man you were created to be and stop being left behind, wondering and asking what do women want. They don't know what they want!!!! You need to make it clear to them, atleast if she is the one you want.
You see that is exactly why Adam lost the garden, because he failed to advise and encourage Eve as to what she needs and fulfill her wants. Don't get me wrong, i am not a philosopher I am just writing my experiences in my diary.
Hitch.
As result of reading many books, you may see some recommendations from Hitch himself.
Understanding Women: The Definitive Guide to Meeting, Dating and Dumping, if Necessary
Secrets of the A Game: How to Meet and Attract Women Anywhere, Anyplace, Anytime
well i have read this and some things that is being mention is true however speaking from my own perspective and friends we do know what we want but unfortunately the things that we look for arent there basically what am saying is that we do know what we want but sometimes what we want we cant get and we just give up the next thing you know the guy is saying we dont know what we want and he is the one that is confused cause they dont know what they want so the question is do men know what they want? majority of men i know the answer absolutely not,thinking that that they know is not the same thing as KNOWING
ReplyDeletewell well toxic I think Mr Hitch is right I am a woman and I dont know what I want but I do Know what I want and money is better than man right about now because men are lame and they think they know everything, they have me misunderstood i have 2 question to ask hitch why do men go into a relationship if they know they cant handle one woman and why do men have sex with other ladies when sex with us is great
ReplyDeleteI think you should rename this to "what do women want in a man?"
ReplyDeleteI think they do. Some have their desires mixed up in fiction and reality though, and meet up with disappointments, broken dreams, and reality meets up with them in the end, so they become confused as to whether or not they can actually attain what they want, and tend to settle for less. BUT those desires are still there, and they end up not being satisfied with their choice.
I must say though, that dissatisfaction is a universal thing. too many people look for things without setting up a plan for it or preparing themselves for it, and end up not being able to handle it.
So all in all, its down to not being satisfied.
Advice:
Everybody needs love in a different way. What works for one may not work for another. Pay attention to the details. Men have an annoying way of brushing off a woman's nagging as habitual and irrelevant, and not even listening, then wondering what's wrong with her when she won't talk. Chances are she already DID tell you, but u brushed it off as nagging. just saying.
Also: if you want something(someone) that's perfect(used loosely, somewhat sarcastically)YOU yourself should strive towards that. The best person for you is going to be a reflection of you (the 2 become 1 lol)
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jb women do settle for less and we are satisfied with what we got but if we arent satisfy its because that someone has so much to offer than wat he is offering and if u call us not satisfy then well you guys are selfish question is is it woth settling lest for someone once use you will leave with the best so you can settlefor less well that saying sucks cause when we settle for less we dont leave with the best
ReplyDeleteThis is something interesting here the real question is do people know what they want let me level out the score here a man sees a girl and goes up to her and pours out his heart the girl in her womanliness if thats a word starts to melt and gives in to the guy desires and they ended up in a relationship but the guy goes out and treat on the girl and like he forget all the sweet words he told the girl the girl now ended up heart broken and thinking all men are the same she wants revenge she goes and treat also after she done cry her heart and tears out and in the end she is labeled as whore another thing to show people dont know what they want well i would say when it comes to relationships i wont say all women dont know what they want.
ReplyDeleteI can't compare all women, same way I can't compare all men, but we as human beings tend to overlook certain qualities in a person and so not letting that person reach their full potential in the said relationship. Then we are left disappointed, heartbroken n most of the time bitter towards the other sex, but most of the time we all have some idea what we want from the opposite sex and we expect them to be willing to meet our expectations.Most of the time neither of the parties are willing to compromise with the other, which in short makes it seems as though we don't know what we want.
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