Tuesday, April 13, 2010

What do men want - the overlooked secret.

 
Besides that fact that we don't experience any monthly restrains, we aren't as complicated as we may appear. I am sure the above image looks very intimidating. The secret to our understanding has been around for centuries, a secret that no woman has ever been able to unveil.

In one of my diary writings I assisted the males in really getting down into the core of what women want and today I chose to identify to women what they should now. No, no, no, ladies no need to be upset, remember you always state that you are correct and all-knowing. 

The secret to us as men is that there is NO SECRET. From the very beginning it was very clear as to how we were made, unlike women whom were just there when Adam woke up. As men we are very straight forward in most issues.

In business we tackle our problems head on most times and strategically plan our outcomes. Physically we are quite clear also, we are quite straight as compared to our curved companions. In terms of relationships we are very clear. For most men we know that we want a relationship with a genuine woman, not one who pretends to be genuine. 

Pretense is unnecessary my feline friends. If you are planning on being in a relationship with a guy then please note that they are visually inclined. Hey, that is why he came and talk to you in the first place, it had nothing to do with your perfume, nor intellect. Some part of your body or presentation caught his attention and then your other attributes pulled him closer. That's why most of Hitch's friends would make jokes about a beautiful woman they were interested in and it all went down south as soon as she began speaking. (dear readers it wasn't that she spoke a different language)


One important thing ladies should have known is that besides love, men appreciate RESPECT. Nothing is more distasteful than being with a woman who evidently has no respect for you as a man. And men if that is the case,first check to see where your faults are and if there aren't any then i don't think i need to say what to do. Unless of course you aren't blinded by "luv".

So ladies, today you have learnt the secret. The secret is that, all along there has been no secret and if you haven't known, now you know. Remember, I am not a philosopher, I am just a diary writer.

Hitch.

Suggested reading from Hitch himself to interested women. Genuine women.

Monday, April 12, 2010

What do women want?

Passing through the pages of history, this question has been one without an answer. Today i am going to answer it.

I am convinced at this point in my lifetime that women are themselves confused about what they want. Yes, yes, yes....... i know that for the many women reading this, you must be saying 'i know what i want'. Do you really? Lets have a look.

So you want a man that is loving and caring, who loves you for who you are. You get that man today and he is loving and caring, loves you and the dirt you walk on, BUT there is another issue. He isn't as financially sound as your girlfriends guy and therefore he isn't good enough.

Okay, so you still aren't that type of lady, you are independent and have your own thing going for you. And you are very certain that you know what you want. Well the guy is supportive, loving and caring but he has a few hick-up in bed, so what do you do? What you want then changes once again.

Where I am from I have had guys ask me over and over about what women want in this world today. The world is changing gentlemen and so are the ladies along with it. While love is something that will be very commendable, it is not what most women are looking for today and if they are it comes after an entire list of requirements.

Women have an idea of what they want, and it is your role as a New Gentleman to show them what they want. To be the man you were created to be and stop being left behind, wondering and asking what do women want. They don't know what they want!!!! You need to make it clear to them, atleast if she is the one you want.

You see that is exactly why Adam lost the garden, because he failed to advise and encourage Eve as to what she needs and fulfill her wants. Don't get me wrong, i am not a philosopher I am just writing my experiences in my diary.

Hitch.



As result of reading many books, you may see some recommendations from Hitch himself.

Understanding Women: The Definitive Guide to Meeting, Dating and Dumping, if Necessary

Secrets of the A Game: How to Meet and Attract Women Anywhere, Anyplace, Anytime